Wednesday, August 9

Forgiveness is beautiful.


Salam all and Hi lovelies.

Maybe some of you say that forgiving is not necessary and we don't actually have to forgive everyone but on a personal level, I gotta say that forgiving people is actually a huge part in moving on. I forgave people to keep the peace or whatever.

I used to hate people who lied to me, cheated and betrayed me. But then they teach me to expect less from human and rely on Allah.

I admit that some times I feel victimised by apologizing for things that aren't even my fault and whenever I need to forgive them even they aren't sorry. I end up simply don't even give a crap (even I say that I don't do hate but actually I just started to hate them).
But that hate, bitterness and anger did nothing to them and its not good to me either. Then I started forgiving them and leave everything to Allah.

I chose to forgive them even they haven't apologised. I wanted to free myself from bitterness and anger. I give it to Him because He is our justice and peace, then I always chose to move forward.

Thanks to my parents - no matter how many mistakes I make, they still love and forgive me. They knew that I'm growing up. Thank you for being patient and love me as much as they can. There is no love without forgiveness right?

Yes I once read that "kalau maaf tu mudah, semua orang akan sentiasa buat silap" well yes! but forgiveness is actually good for us.
You must have heard of forgive but not forget. We forgive those who have wronged us but we never forget. No doubt.
To give them a second chance is your choice, but what could help you to fully recover from what they have done to you is forgiveness.

Maybe you'll forgive them but kinda hope karma gets them. Whatever suit yourself!

What I want to say is,

If only we remember how short this life is and how soon we will be a memory for all, we had be more forgiving and less likely to hold grudges.
Forgiving someone who didn't know they messed up because I chose to let it go without telling them they wronged you, I forgive them and it feels good.


I just realised, forgiving those who hurt me literally allowed me to be free. Now I breathe a little easier.

Anyways, what does forgiveness look like to you?

Till then, keep well.


24 comments:

E'in said...

kalau kak e'in, boleh maafkan tapi taknak tengok muke die lagi.. NEVER! huhu

nini said...

So true...maaf itu indah...=)

Mrs. A said...

It's easier to forgive, than forget.

Meutia said...

forgive someone, of course, sets me free. but it's so haaaaaaaaaard :(

ღizzati harunoღ said...

Boleh maafkan. Boleh baik tapi tak boleh lupa apa yang dia dah buat... Still ingat -.-

mamapp said...

Forgiving is not easy but its worth it

Ainniah Zulkefli said...

beautiful :)
senang nak maafkan, tapi agak susah nak lupakan. dah jadi 'parut' kat hati kan.

Mrs Hazeera said...

forgive & open your heart then keep smiling!

Zaleha Abdul Salam said...

memaafkan memang tak mudah.
tp kalau dpt buat.. memang heaven sgt perasaannya.

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Farhana Zukri said...

forgiveness is indeed beautiful, but it takes a lot of courage to do so :)

nurul atikah said...

hmm :( faham.. kadang kite cakap kite da maafkan tapi dalam hati masih lagi terasa. Tahniah :) bcoz, its really hard to do :). to forgive and forget.. tahniah dear.. <3

Aimi Syafiqah said...

Kita memaafkan orang lain bukan sebab dia; tapi untuk diri kita sendiri :)

nadhie wueen said...

Setuju apa yang ee sampaikan ni. forgive but not forget. for sure :)

E'in said...

singgah hari jumaat.. :)

Mazni Munawar said...

lain pulak cite kalau dah maafkan then dia buat lagi, sabor jelah

Misaki PureBlood said...

even when someone backstabs and betray me, I still can forgive that person.. TT^TT

it just that, the thing is I still remember that memories which I want to be erased...

if another simple mistake, I don't really mind.. after all, everytime we sleep.. we have been thought to forgive everyone who make us angry and mad TT^TT

Farah said...

For me, yes, I can forgive but I will never forget.

Radhia Razali said...

Forgive & forget..just let it go..

Asyiqin said...

Orang yg mudah memaafkan ialah orang yang paling hebat!

N Nina said...

Tak reti nak marah orang lama-lama. Kejap sangat marah tu walaupun orang tu buat kemain teruk.

Memang jenis gitu dari dulu lagi.

tapi forgive not forget la. memang kemain susah nak lupa apa orang buat kat kita.

zety said...

Nice write up

I do agree with you about forgiving others is not only for them but for our own too.

To achieve the "sincerely forgive" might be hard but... I do believe we can "forget" things with the help of time.


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Fuzy Hamid said...

forgive and forget..yet its not as difficult as we say it but somehow this will ease and make us calm..InsyaAllah

E'in said...

mane menghilang nie? hihi

Gen Y girl said...

Soo true. We usually forgive but not forget. It takes times to completely forget (depends on what is the issue)