Monday, August 21

Go for your goals.

Salam and Hi everybody!

I hope you are doing well because I am.
If you are not, yeah it is okay to not be okay - hope you'll get better soon.

I still remember.

There was a point in my life when I was about to graduate from matriculation and I did not know what I want to study. What is my passion? The things that I know at that moment is I love singing and music. I started joining music and band just for fun.

People say passions can become careers - nahhhh my parents don't allow me to go into music for a career. Then they stay as hobbies and that is okay. I'd never want that to be my job either.

Yeah people also say that we have to follow our dreams (no matter how much it may hurt). So that when you grow up your passion is your job. Well I'd heard that advice a lot when I was a kid.

A lot of people feel teenagers should have their lives planned out at the age 18 or even 16. But I just wondered how people at 19 know what they want the rest of their lives to look like. All I know is I want to make amount of money. That's it.

My goal at that time is I want to go to university and get a degree. I've wanted to do things that I am good at, and it's gonna be my job - I must study things that I am good at. Then people said, end up you'll be in a completely unrelated job - it will not be relevant with your degree. You might be enjoyed with your job but it is not your passion. Yeah I heard it a lot!

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But I don't care. I am not built for that kinda thinking. I must pursue in things that I am gonna be fabulous at. Yeas I was struggling with what career path I want to take. It's not that I lack ambition. I just don't know, I haven't figure out exactly what I want.

I once told my friend, to be honest I don't know what I want to study. I kept dua and I put trust in Allah, to put me in a place and be in a programme that I will be good at them, no matter if I don't like them at that moment, I promise I will fall for it and I am not afraid to take the risks.

And here I am, end up studying thing I love. I'll start my third year in September. I've never thought that I am going to love what I am doing. Alhamdulillah.

People, remind yourself that nothing can stop you from achieving your goals and also influence others to continue doing things they love about for the rest of their lives.

Go for your goals, achieve your personal success!

Till then, keep well.

Saturday, August 19

21 Things I've learnt in the last 1 year

Salam and Hello everybody!

I hope you are doing well.

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And here is 21 things I learned and realised in the last 1 year.

1. Be brave enough to walk away from situations that don't benefit you.

2. Give yourself the space and time to grow.

3. Don't care of what others think of you.

4. Don't stop being a good people because of bad people.

5. Also, don't always be too good for everyone. You don't need to be a bad person either.

6. Be careful with who are you choosing to work with (in a work group)

7. Don't be afraid of the real world. (don't be scared for life)

8. You can't please everyone.

9. I realised I still don't know how to say 'NO'

10. It's okay to not be okay and it's okay to cry sometimes.

11. Heartbreaks can happen and that's okay. You'll be okay.

12. Always be thankful then you'll learn to appreciate little things.

13. Don't set your expectations too high. Keep it low to save yourself from disapointments.

14. Not everyone has good intentions as you do.

15. Evaluate your relationship before you get in too deep.

16. I realised that everyone makes mistakes. (not just me)

17. Not everyone would treat you as how you treat them.

18. Don't be in a hurry to make a permanent decisions.

19. Don't let your past experiences stop you from living your life.

20. You are the key to changing your life.

21. Don't try to fit in, you'll only end up hurt.

Till then, keep well!